The Ink Link: Marcia’s about to get tatted!

The Ink Link is an ongoing project at CN&CO that showcases the diversity of tattoos. One of the great things about a tattoo is that it goes against the commonly held viewpoint that “what you see is what you get”. There’s a misguided belief in certain quarters that only “some” people get a tattoo. We are putting paid to that perception through the stories showcased in the Ink Link.

This edition of the Ink Link features our friend Marcia Le Roux from SSP. Marcia is in her mid-40s and has been contemplating getting a tattoo for many years. Now she has decided to take the plunge. Here’s her tattoo story:

By Marcia Le Roux

At the age of 47, I’ve decided it’s finally time to get my first tattoo! It’s not that I have ever been against tattoos. On the contrary, I’ve always admired the idea of permanently marking my body with something deeply personal. A tattoo, to me, is more than just ink on skin, though; it’s a representation of your beliefs, your journey and the moments that define who you are. For years, I’ve been contemplating what that would look like for me, and I’m now ready to commit to something that will be with me forever.

When I was younger, I thought about getting a tattoo – a dragonfly, to be exact – but looking back, I’m glad I didn’t. It wasn’t reflective of my true self or the spiritual journey I’ve been on. Over time, I realised that a tattoo is more than just an aesthetic choice; it’s a spiritual reminder of the paths we’ve taken, the lessons we’ve learned and where we’re headed.

One of the biggest challenges for me wasn’t just deciding on the design, but where to place it. Being in the corporate world, I struggled with the societal perceptions of tattoos and how it might affect how I’m viewed professionally. I didn’t want to hide it; for me, it’s about authenticity. Ultimately, I’ve chosen to place it on the inside of my arm – an area I can see every day – reminding me of my journey and where I’m headed. It’s for me, not for others.

This tattoo represents much more than just art; it’s a spiritual statement that reflects my life, my growth and my legacy for my son, who has decided to get the same tattoo when he turns 17. It’s a constant reminder of the inner strength I’ve cultivated through my experiences, a legacy I want to pass on to him. I’m finally ready to carry this piece of myself forward, marking this chapter of my life with something deeply meaningful. It’s not about how others will perceive it. Rather, it’s about how it makes me feel, the story it tells and the journey it represents.

In my formative years I looked externally for validation. But by going on many spiritual journeys I’ve learnt that everything – love, fear, self-worth – comes from within. This tattoo is my way of reminding myself of that truth every single day.